Once upon a time, our kitchen looked like this:
(Notice the shorter counter.)
Then we painted it "blue steel" (which really looked purplish) and added the trim and new appliances.
Now is is gray. Logan asked me why I didn't paint the kitchen. He didn't notice the change.
Which is odd because they really are different colors, but it is hard to notice.
Here is a better idea of what the 2 colors look like side by side.
Top is Behr Anonymous
Bottom is Glidden Blue Steel